I need an advice

[vic.ks05]

So I never picked up a hobby since elementary school. My Dad and his family didn’t care about me. Now recently since this year, and two years ago, I picked up a lot of hobbies. I can’t even go out and meet people because I don’t have a car and because of Covid and delta Verent. Now I’m just sitting in my apartment bored doing my hobbies and now I can’t even share it with anybody. There’s no one my age around in my neighborhood. All I see is little kids and grown ups. This stupid Math class at my college won’t let me pass. I know how to solve math problems! If I had a car, it would be easy for me to go out and meet people. I use ctran to go to the library and to my appointments. That’s it. I have two friends who take me out to lunch and go shopping. I want to do something every week like shopping and go out to lunch and do my hobbies everyday so I won’t be so bored. What should I do?

Also people I associated with through elementary, middle school, high school, and college never suggested me to pick a hobby or gave me a hobby. I’m not telling them nothing else. They should’ve helped me out instead of ignoring me. I’m not going to help them with nothing else either

I’m an Extrovert. (ESFJ)

 

[Beefy]

so there's nowhere you can walk to locally? Also is the ctran expensive? I thought most public transportation would take you close to some exciting spots unless covid messed with that.

As for the hobby bit, have you tried meeting people virtually? Idk what your hobbies are but because of covid a lot of people have moved to Zoom/ forums/Facebook. So maybe check and see if there's a community for you out there, it may make you a little less bored.

 

[MedicationHelps87]

I am willing to talk to you. You seem very nice and kind.
I get the cold treatment from my family too, so I feel you.

Friends can come from anywhere. It doesn't need to be face to face.