Kim Seulgi Denies Affairs With Ahn Jaehyun + Knetz Opinions Shift + Defending an Abuser = Clownery

[Aquamaraqua]

I didn't like his nipple comment at all and I still don't, doesn't have anything to do with his gender

Now I don't like her cat comment and I still won't later on

And if her financial statements were true, he should pay har even if he's broke. But looks like to me that mayhaps its not the finance she's after entirely dun dun dun

I guess people people drew conclusions on who was right or wrong when we don't know anything about them in real. But this goes both ways. Didn't you also call her out in her narcissism on a post that practically sounded like labeling a disorder?

Its their divorce, we don't know, and at this point I wonder how many of us even care.

1. It was never proven he actually said anything about her nipples, it was all through her mouth.

2. She literally told him to get over his depression in their texts. That is one of the biggest red flags here.

3. And? I stand by every single thing I said in that thread. She has those behaviors and should be called out for them. Let me quote someone who said this better than I can:

Ya'll cared enough when you wanted to bash AJH. Now that he is actually right don't just run away. He has every right to defend himself to her lies.

 

[Aquamaraqua]

Relationships are complex and shouldnt be judged by randoms on the net. Even with the recently released texts if you dont have any insight (know the couple personaly through their ups and downs), the info you get can be really misleading. Just saying, not defending anyone. From the texts I wouldnt be really comfortable while living with her, on the other hand we know not what happened between them in real life. Text without emotions cannot transit everything. But she shouldnt have lied about the pet tbh. That was really low.

Honestly I wish they took it to court and just get divorced. Both of them look done with the relationship. It would help them both to actually divorce and move on.

When there is a clear abuser and victim it is clear what side is the one to take... He is currently taking it to court. With the same lawyer that put JJY in jail. LOL at people calling him friends with JJY...

 

[PockyAddict89]

I'm mature enough to admit that i was wrong, i was supporting her until that chat came out and exposed her.

 

[DR. K💉M 👄]

1. It was never proven he actually said anything about her nipples, it was all through her mouth.

2. She literally told him to get over his depression in their texts. That is one of the biggest red flags here.

3. And? I stand by every single thing I said in that thread. She has those behaviors and should be called out for them. Let me quote someone who said this better than I can:

Ya'll cared enough when you wanted to bash AJH. Now that he is actually right don't just run away. He has every right to defend himself to her lies.

He's right? Is this about being right or wrong? And no I never bashed him accept for his comment which he never denied. Same for the lady.

My point is don't do the same as you're implying others to do that it's drawing conclusions. Your thread title is accusing her as an abuser.
Were you there in in their lives? Did you see who actually went through how much pain? Then stop. I wouldn't have wanted some internet person to label disorders on me. Unnielogists and oppalogists are exactly the same.

 

[Joker]

Women are perfect creatures they can do no wrong. Only men are manipulative and abusive /sarcasm. I feel bad for anh she destroyed his career based on lies. He lost all his CF deals because of the crazy bitch.

Wouldn’t be surprised at this point if that girl from the song-song couple abused and cheated too.

LOL women

 

[Aegyo]

one thing I know for sure from all this drama is GHS is a psychopath whether it was her fault or his.

 

[Aquamaraqua]

He's right? Is this about being right or wrong? And no I never bashed him accept for his comment which he never denied. Same for the lady.

My point is don't do the same as you're implying others to do that it's drawing conclusions. Your thread title is accusing her as an abuser.
Were you there in in their lives? Did you see who actually went through how much pain? Then stop. I wouldn't have wanted some internet person to label disorders on me. Unnielogists and oppalogists are exactly the same.

There's a labeling of disorders because she's showing signs of it... say you don't care for victims of abuse and move on with your lives. Because those who have lived through narcs have come out, and she's shown signs of it again and again. This ain't a diagnosis, simply an observation, as I made clear multiple times. IDK why you seem to be so focused on that though?

You're trying to carve it out as if I'm just talking out of my ass when there's evidence out there.

She admits to railroading him into marriage to limit his self determination and autonomy.

She had him texting her from morning to bed time to account for his whereabouts. He had to tell her where he was and who he was with at all times!

She demanded he return to the house immediately because he was with Kyuhyun.

She demanded he transfer his home - HIS ASSET - into her name because he brought his boss home to discuss work - idc if it was 3am. He's an actor and so is she - both are perfectly aware of the ridiculously long schedules they have. Plus, it's still his place. Telling him he can't invite someone to his place and then demanding exclusive control of it to prevent him ever inviting anyone into his home again is controlling.

All of this shows evidence of attempting to isolate him even from his friends.

She takes zero responsibility for anything and blames him for everything. Everything is his fault. He's immature. He's untrustworthy. He's not behaving responsibly. He's always at fault and is constantly belittled.

She lost her shit at him because his stylist at his job bought him a birthday cake. That's why he's "untrustworthy" apparently. Because his job means he works with women. God help him if he had a kiss scene, i reckon she would have made demands there too.

She was lying to their ceo about him. She posted ample lies on her social media about him and launched a full blown smear campaign to ruin him.

She actually in there telling him he is lucky to have such a gracious wife that allows him to do certain things.. while simultaneously having a list of rules that include a curfew and restrictions on his social activity.

She constantly dismissed his opinions, his feelings and his mental health.

And she is refusing to allow him his freedom even now. Refusing him a divorce. Constantly changing terms. Deliberately trying to ruin him and take everything he has - including his fkn cat ffs!!

She was going to leave him destitute, in $100k+ debt, without a career or a reputation, with no hope at all for the future WITH DEPRESSION! If the man didn't do something to clear his name he would have ended up a suicide statistic with people saying "Good riddance" over it.. Based entirely on lies..

And I'm not allowed to "diagnose" her as an abuser? uh.... okay then......