Longtime lurker first time poster

[SirTim0thy]

Hello and welcome! (Although I suppose you've been here as long as I have, just in the shadows! )

Nice to have you join in the discussions where you can. No pressure to participate if you have other pressing matters, of course.

 

[temporarywool]

Hello and welcome! (Although I suppose you've been here as long as I have, just in the shadows! )

Nice to have you join in the discussions where you can. No pressure to participate if you have other pressing matters, of course.

Thanks. I lurked on oh since like Feb 2023 and then moved with everyone.

Also ahhh I'm older than u! I thought u and sm maid would be at least my age or older.

Ah it feels weird because I know I still talk and look 17 irl (autism) but other than my apartment I don't have the typical milestones of ppl in their 30s and someone said something once about u having a kid.

Friends lied to me!

 

[temporarywool]

I think it is possible that members might be interested in something like this. I would have great difficulty in discussing things of such a personal nature. Not because I am ashamed of anything but I have anxiety and it would flare a lot talking about my issues.

Aw that's OK man. U could still benefit from resource sharing and knowing ur not alone helps a lot.

My family isn't as supportive as I'd like (my mom still hasn't canceled her cruise that leaves from Florida) and the gay thread has made me feel better just being there.

 

[OutroTearTheFirst]

Welcome!! Did you start stanning Lee Joon when he was with MBLAQ or did you learn about him through dramas?

Plus I live in the desert and liked to attend trials in the summer because the courthouse was air conditioned. Learned a lot from reading and watching.

What a beautiful piece of umji lore

 

[temporarywool]

Mblaq. I spent 2024 getting into 2nd and 3rd gen groups to get away from the 2 minute songs. I also watched his I live alone episodes.

The real answer:

He's my only age appropriate oppa who would potentially go out with a trans person because he literally admitted to being bi years ago. There are transphobic bi ppl but I can dream!

(Kim jiwoong is under 27 and I feel you're still figuring things out at that age. Whereas I'm trying to get my parents and my step dad to downsize.)

The gay thread still hasn't figured out Jaejoong and his stalkers would be too much for me.