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going back to school for the first time in like 5 months soon :brbdying: I’m gonna finally be busy again
 

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A series of experiments led by the late Kevin Carlsmith, a researcher at Colgate University, showed that while most people believed revenge would make them feel better, in reality it did the opposite.

In one experiment, participants were divided into "punishers," who could get revenge on someone who double-crossed them during a game, and "nonpunishers," who weren't given this opportunity. Punishers and nonpunishers rated their feelings immediately after the game, as well as 10 minutes later.

"Punishers actually felt worse than forecasters predicted they would have felt," the researchers wrote. "Punishers even felt worse than nonpunishers, despite getting the chance to take their revenge. Ten minutes after the game, punishers continued to brood on the [double-crosser] significantly more than the others did."

I'm sorry but this study is dumb. Not that I think revenge is good, but because you can't compare a simple game in a controlled study to something serious--an action that would genuinely give a person reason to contemplate revenge. For example, someone stealing your intellectual property or causing you to get fired. This study implies people don't feel better after revenge and while I imagine that's true, these situations aren't comparable to real-life cases of revenge.
 

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Where Will i ever find a Boy as beautiful as yuta
Waiting on some beautiful boy to save me from heartache :peepoblanket:
Im always thinking of this song
 

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massive regrets jumping into a job, right after finishing uni

should've taken a half year break or something -_-
 

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ok no but really, i seriously need to start picking up on my mandarin again. i really dropped the ball 2 years ago.
 
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He deserves better but i have no time for a wild card round or whatever its called sorry babe
 

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Honestly?? I can’t wait to get back to school because these past 3 months since I last finished my exams were so incredibly uneventful and unproductive. The bump that I had at the inside of the bottom of my thumb caused by me holding my pen too tightly is completely gone haha.
 

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I'm so tired, I'm going to go sleep now. I haven't slept before midnight in probably a year??

edit: i always say I’m gonna go to sleep early but i never do
 
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my biggest issue is that i'm always sleepy but never want to sleep hnnn i wish i wasnt like this
 
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