The Gay and Queer in Kpop Thread

Should tarot tea receipts be linked in the OP?

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I think Jungkook is open minded not really an ally, he would maybe not pick up a gay flag or wear queer merch but if he is friends with someone that he finds out later is bi or gay he wouldn't mind or care [I don't know if that makes you an ally, to me personally it just makes the person very free and open minded]. I think i don't mind that.

Yoongi has said “I focus on personality and atmosphere. I don't have an ideal type and it's not limited to a girl.”
I think he did mean something when he said that. However, people later said it was a wrong translation and he meant something else. It totally could be a mistranslation or misinterpretation because it was a Japanese interview and it wasn't recorded they just happened to post the translation, so we don't really know what he said.

It's hard to read V. I remember when he cried reading the monologue from the Father in 'Call Me By Your Name'. It must've really meant something to him.

I think BTS is in a weird place where people think they are above the kpop bubble and can do whatever they want but at the same time they can't because they still are part of a very homophobic Korean society.
Sorry for quoting you twice in different posts, I meant to do it in one!

V is indeed hard to read and maybe that's why he might be part of the community. I know we tend to try not to make it very obvious, even if it doesn't always work. I realized he tends to "man up" a lot in BTS videos and look more masculine, which maybe it is just who he is, but it is an interesting thing I've noticed. Maybe it is just something they told them to do to, you know, please their fans. Because in his own music it is almost like he becomes a different person, down to the clothes, the mannerisms...
 

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Sorry for quoting you twice in different posts, I meant to do it in one!

V is indeed hard to read and maybe that's why he might be part of the community. I know we tend to try not to make it very obvious, even if it doesn't always work. I realized he tends to "man up" a lot in BTS videos and look more masculine, which maybe it is just who he is, but it is an interesting thing I've noticed. Maybe it is just something they told them to do to, you know, please their fans. Because in his own music it is almost like he becomes a different person, down to the clothes, the mannerisms...
I think you might be right. I agree with having to camouflage because obviously they know what their fans want. He is afterall a performer and is under a company that asks them to render an image that makes them money.
I also think that Kpop idols have very well mastered a way to have a very different image on camera and off it.
This applies to obviously every famous person but kpop is a special case where they are selling a dream to all the young fans who think they have a chance with these beautiful Oppas. We do have rude awakenings [Taeil] sometimes, to remind us that we don't really know what the industry is hiding.

Kpop will always favor the Asian market first and one has to remember that Asia is not as open minded as the west.
 

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Wait, Suga had so many coming outs? I didn't know.
He's basically been openly bi since 2014. That's 11 years now.

Homophobic Armys always use the mistranslation thing because they can't handle oppa being queer. And even if they don't bias suga 4 some ppl just the thought of their bts bias being friends/in a group with a real queer person is 2 much.



 
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Sorry for quoting you twice in different posts, I meant to do it in one!

V is indeed hard to read and maybe that's why he might be part of the community. I know we tend to try not to make it very obvious, even if it doesn't always work. I realized he tends to "man up" a lot in BTS videos and look more masculine, which maybe it is just who he is, but it is an interesting thing I've noticed. Maybe it is just something they told them to do to, you know, please their fans. Because in his own music it is almost like he becomes a different person, down to the clothes, the mannerisms...
Hard agree 2 all of this.

Early pre hyyh bts was so masc and trying 2 emulate big Bang.

His solo photo book was so fucking gay.

I also think that Kpop idols have very well mastered a way to have a very different image on camera and off it.

This is masking. Nd ♾️ idols already have 2 do this 2 survive in society so it isn't that hard 2 create a fake u and a real u when they get famous.

Kpop will always favor the Asian market first and one has to remember that Asia is not as open minded as the west.
Yes and I think this applies 2 western markets 2. The first thing most white ppl say when they look at a pic of a kpop bg is they all look gay.

I think post bts getting white famous there's been a bit of a consious effort by companies 2 send the more masc guys as solo models or brand ambassadors 4 western brands.

Other than v, Hongjoong and ten I can't think of anyone else who isn't masc who has partnerships with luxury brands.

Like Doyoung isn't hardcore masc but he doesn't read as fem as ten either.
 
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I think you might be right. I agree with having to camouflage because obviously they know what their fans want. He is afterall a performer and is under a company that asks them to render an image that makes them money.
I also think that Kpop idols have very well mastered a way to have a very different image on camera and off it.
This applies to obviously every famous person but kpop is a special case where they are selling a dream to all the young fans who think they have a chance with these beautiful Oppas. We do have rude awakenings [Taeil] sometimes, to remind us that we don't really know what the industry is hiding.

Kpop will always favor the Asian market first and one has to remember that Asia is not as open minded as the west.
Yeah, it is really sad. That's why then there is actors and singers in their 40s and 50s still without a family, or constantly giving excuses as to why they have not settled down. Hope things get better for every queer person in that country and the rest of the world.
 
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Yeah, it is really sad. That's why then there is actors and singers in their 40s and 50s still without a family, or constantly giving excuses as to why they have not settled down. Hope things get better for every queer person in that country and the rest of the world.
There's hope 4 Korea again since the impeachment.

Myung isn't a woke ally but Korea has so many more pressing issues right now that at least we can hope that he won't role back anymore rights.

Yoon scrubbed us from the sex Ed curriculum and changed the law on trans women enlisting. U have 2 have been on estrogen 4 at least six months now or they send u 2 the military.

Trans ppl aren't a monolith and not everybody medically transitions.
 
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Have some bts pics since they've been talked about today. Plus sailor moon rm.


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Slight tw. The beginning of this is straight up hazing shit. I will never find this sort of thing funny. But rm cross dresses in this so I'm posting it.


 
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More v receipts.


"I am just thankful I can work out while looking at the soldier’s bodies, although I am barely keeping up! They are really motivating, and although I have a few injuries, I won’t go overboard! Please understand it is because I am having so much fun, lol."

V being single receipt. I know that taennie shippers tried 2 make v and Jennie having similar aesthetic pfps proof that they're still together in like 2023 or 2024 but I think this is proof that they broke up b4 he went 2 the military.


November 28th, 2024

On November 28, choreographer and dancer Lee Jung Lee posted an Instagram video of her and V dancing to the song “What’s Your Fantasy” by Ludacris (feat. Shawna).



V wrote, “Ha…I’ll do the dance again next year.”

One of the replies to his comment is from the musician Levi (real name Jin Seong Hyuk).

Levi and V have been friends since high school. The two have also worked together professionally. Levi co-wrote and co-produced V’s song “Blue & Grey,” which was originally intended for V’s solo album. Instead, “Blue & Grey” became a fan-favorite song on BTS’s 2020 album BE.

Ig post of them



In reply to V, Levi wrote, “You’re in great shape, man.”

Some netizens were quick to point out Levi’s word choice. He referred to V as “총각” (chonggak), which can mean “bachelor.” In English, “bachelor” refers to an unmarried, single man. As such, some netizens joked that Levi outed V’s relationship status.

In this context, in which Levi compliments V’s body, “총각” is often used to playfully describe youth or vitality (e.g. young man, guy) rather than someone’s relationship status. Even so, many fans are totally ready to take “Bachelor V” off the market!

Tweets from armys talking about it.






 
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I'm a little offend at @temporarywool's comment about that Namjoon not much in queer-culture like Jimin&Taehyung lol
I bring my receipts of him :TeaPar:
Namjoon is very often recommends queer media or queer-artists on his instagram:
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And he is friend with Soyoon, Halsey, Kim Hanjoo (from silica gel, he was with Hobi and gay bar i guess?), his best friend San Yawn made a cameo in BL series Love in the Big City.
 

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Bts really confusing me
actually a lot of members have receipts some of them could be just allys
Here is my opinion on other kpop groupe:
Tvxq: yunho
Big bang: Gdragon
Exo: sehun,suho
Seventeen:mingyu,hoshi
Stray kids: hyunjin
Onezerobase: hanbin
Super junior really confusing me they do a lot of fanservise
 

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I'm a little offend at @temporarywool's comment about that Namjoon not much in queer-culture like Jimin&Taehyung lol
I bring my receipts of him :TeaPar:
Namjoon is very often recommends queer media or queer-artists on his instagram:
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And he is friend with Soyoon, Halsey, Kim Hanjoo (from silica gel, he was with Hobi and gay bar i guess?), his best friend San Yawn made a cameo in BL series Love in the Big City.
I was going 2 reply 2 u...

I meant that v and Jimin r more obvious about it.

Jimin had the gay pants thing in 2023 and I always think of this clip of v dancing in his living room.





His most recent deleted post revealed the origin of a signature V dance move.

He shared a scene of the late Hong Kong singer and actor Leslie Cheung (also known as Cheung Kwok Wing) from the 1990 film Days of Being Wild. It’s honestly iconic.

He’s especially a fan of Leslie Cheung. Previously, ARMY noticed him humming the OST from Cheung’s 1986 film A Better Tomorrow!




Taehyung humming the OST for the 1986 movie A Better Tomorrow called Love of the Past by Leslie Cheung

7:06 AM · May 23, 2021

the late Leslie Cheung was gay.

with rm u have to be in the fandom or looking 4 receipts so he isn't as immediately obvious.

For me his strongest receipt will always be the lyrics 2 parry xxo by glam. He wasn't an idol back then and had more freedom 2 say what he wants.

Also yes the average straight person ain't out here watching/reading this much queer media. I honestly think if u aren't a bl or gl fan and u don't know queer ppl personally u probably don't really think about us that much even if u aren't a phobe.
 
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Bts really confusing me
actually a lot of members have receipts some of them could be just allys
Here is my opinion on other kpop groupe:
Tvxq: yunho
Big bang: Gdragon
Exo: sehun,suho
Seventeen:mingyu,hoshi
Stray kids: hyunjin
Onezerobase: hanbin
Super junior really confusing me they do a lot of fanservise
Tvxq: yunho. Pings face wise but could be bi. Him going to a brothel during covid was 🤔. Like it's easier 4 bi male idols 2 get with male back up dancers and other idols and actors if they only want sex so why go 2 a brothel and risk a scandal? I get having a preference 4 women but still.

Also Jaejoong. That man read yaoi Manga at the airport once.

Big bang: Gdragon💯. I talked about him and some of the groups u listed on page 45. Also top.

Exo: sehun,suho💯

My suho receipt:





Suho - 141123 Actor Kim Donghwan’s Instagram account update: “오랜만에 함께 사우나 항상 무조건 적으로 응원하고 고맙당. #사우나 #3년만에 #같이”

Translation: “At the sauna together after a long time Thanks for always giving me unwavering support. #sauna #in 3 years #together”

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Seventeen:mingyu,hoshi
💯 on hoshi. Everyone here pretty much agrees that he's bi.
I still have 2 finish talking about mingyu.

Stray kids: hyunjin
This man confuses me. He's a fan of troye Sivan but I would still say bi or straight.

ZEROBASEONE: hanbin💯 mother hanbin!
Also Hao and Tae rae 4 sure. I have so much 2 post about them 2.

Super junior: I'm not personally a fan so other than a particular opinion about heechul I mostly just find things occasionally about them on ppl's ancient and inactive tumblrs and livejournals. Most of what I post about them is the opinions of other ppl.

Siwon is gay and closeted.

Are you watching good day show,if yes what your opinion on the 88s line
Hard pass. Sorry.

Jung Hae In, Lee Soo Hyuk, Im Siwan, and Kwanghee 💯 queer though.

Lee Soo Hyuk and Hoshi r together.

Im Siwan and Kwanghee have been mentioned by me and other scholars on here 2. They're on the team.

Jung Hae In: I have receipts about him but I want 2 actually finish the work i started. 😵‍💫😭
 
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Bts really confusing me
actually a lot of members have receipts some of them could be just allys
Here is my opinion on other kpop groupe:
Tvxq: yunho
Big bang: Gdragon
Exo: sehun,suho
Seventeen:mingyu,hoshi
Stray kids: hyunjin
Onezerobase: hanbin
Super junior really confusing me they do a lot of fanservise
What do you think of the following members?

Exo: Xiumin? [ The Leo pic]
Stray kids: Felix [Bi]
Zerobase1: Zhang hao [he obviously is gay, I think he was out in China], Taerae [?]

I am getting into &Team, I remember someone mentioning them here. Do we have any opinions on them?
 

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Bts really confusing me
actually a lot of members have receipts some of them could be just allys
Here is my opinion on other kpop groupe:
Tvxq: yunho
Big bang: Gdragon
Exo: sehun,suho
Seventeen:mingyu,hoshi
Stray kids: hyunjin
Onezerobase: hanbin
Super junior really confusing me they do a lot of fanservise
I would add Kai in EXO, like most of Seventeen (S.Coups, Joshua, Jeonghan, Jun, Hoshi, Mingyu, Minghao, Seungkwan), Felix and Lee Know for Stray Kids and all of OZB. Super Junior just Heechul.
 

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Tvxq: yunho. Pings face wise but could be bi. Him going to a brothel duri
Tvxq: yunho. Pings face wise but could be bi. Him going to a brothel during covid was 🤔. Like it's easier 4 bi male idols 2 get with male back up dancers and other idols and actors if they only want sex so why go 2 a brothel and risk a scandal? I get having a preference 4 women but still.

Also Jaejoong. That man read yaoi Manga at the airport once.

Big bang: Gdragon💯. I talked about him and some of the groups u listed on page 45. Also top.

Exo: sehun,suho💯

My suho receipt:





Suho - 141123 Actor Kim Donghwan’s Instagram account update: “오랜만에 함께 사우나 항상 무조건 적으로 응원하고 고맙당. #사우나 #3년만에 #같이”

Translation: “At the sauna together after a long time Thanks for always giving me unwavering support. #sauna #in 3 years #together”

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Seventeen:mingyu,hoshi
💯 on hoshi. Everyone here pretty much agrees that he's bi.
I still have 2 finish talking about mingyu.

Stray kids: hyunjin
This man confuses me. He's a fan of troye Sivan but I would still say bi or straight.

ZEROBASEONE: hanbin💯 mother hanbin!
Also Hao and Tae rae 4 sure. I have so much 2 post about them 2.

Super junior: I'm not personally a fan so other than a particular opinion about heechul I mostly just find things occasionally about them on ppl's ancient and inactive tumblrs and livejournals. Most of what I post about them is the opinions of other ppl.

Siwon is gay and closeted.


Hard pass. Sorry.

Jung Hae In, Lee Soo Hyuk, Im Siwan, and Kwanghee 💯 queer though.

Lee Soo Hyuk and Hoshi r together.

Im Siwan and Kwanghee have been mentioned by me and other scholars on here 2. They're on the team.

Jung Hae In: I have receipts about him but I want 2 actually finish the work i started. 😵‍💫😭


ng covid was 🤔. Like it's easier 4 bi male idols 2 get with male back up dancers and other idols and actors if they only want sex so why go 2 a brothel and risk a scandal? I get having a preference 4 women but still.

Also Jaejoong. That man read yaoi Manga at the airport once.

Big bang: Gdragon💯. I talked about him and some of the groups u listed on page 45. Also top.

Exo: sehun,suho💯

My suho receipt:





Suho - 141123 Actor Kim Donghwan’s Instagram account update: “오랜만에 함께 사우나 항상 무조건 적으로 응원하고 고맙당. #사우나 #3년만에 #같이”

Translation: “At the sauna together after a long time Thanks for always giving me unwavering support. #sauna #in 3 years #together”

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Seventeen:mingyu,hoshi
💯 on hoshi. Everyone here pretty much agrees that he's bi.
I still have 2 finish talking about mingyu.

Stray kids: hyunjin
This man confuses me. He's a fan of troye Sivan but I would still say bi or straight.

ZEROBASEONE: hanbin💯 mother hanbin!
Also Hao and Tae rae 4 sure. I have so much 2 post about them 2.

Super junior: I'm not personally a fan so other than a particular opinion about heechul I mostly just find things occasionally about them on ppl's ancient and inactive tumblrs and livejournals. Most of what I post about them is the opinions of other ppl.

Siwon is gay and closeted.


Hard pass. Sorry.

Jung Hae In, Lee Soo Hyuk, Im Siwan, and Kwanghee 💯 queer though.

Lee Soo Hyuk and Hoshi r together.

Im Siwan and Kwanghee have been mentioned by me and other scholars on here 2. They're on the team.

Jung Hae In: I have receipts about him but I want 2 actually finish the work i started. 😵‍💫😭

Thank you for replying i hope you would share jung hae in receipts when you have time
 

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What do you think of the following members?

Exo: Xiumin? [ The Leo pic]
Stray kids: Felix [Bi]
Zerobase1: Zhang hao [he obviously is gay, I think he was out in China], Taerae [?]

I am getting into &Team, I remember someone mentioning them here. Do we have any opinions on tihem?
Actually befor the leo pic i thought xiumin is more likely straight but after the pic i change my mind and i sarted to pay more attention to him
He seems kind of weird when chen outed sehun in that radio show
He was also very nervous when he attended leo birthday party
For felix he do a lot of fanservise and he seems a little disgusted one he was on the jewel box (i don't think you will agree with me but that my opinion i could be wrong)
 

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What do you think of the following members?

Exo: Xiumin? [ The Leo pic]
Stray kids: Felix [Bi]
Zerobase1: Zhang hao [he obviously is gay, I think he was out in China], Taerae [?]

I am getting into &Team, I remember someone mentioning them here. Do we have any opinions on them?
There were essentially two gay friends groups in Boys Planet and Taerae was close with the sassy ones (woongki, park hanbin, seo won, haruto, etc. The unnies/power puff girls/various other nicknames). He's not very fem though so he often gets overlooked. He's way cattier in zb1 than he ever was on boys planet though lol

His bromance with Matthew is also getting a little weird not gonna lie those two are getting a little too comfortable one of these days they are actually going to kiss at this point. I previously thought Matthew seemed very straight but he's been deadset on proving that wrong lately so :sip: who knows what's going on with those two.

Here's Taerae talking about the infamous fancam where it looks like he's checking out Junhyeon and his defense is that Junhyeon was the one flirting.



He's kind of laying low when it comes to new receipts though, probably because he doesn't really have that much chemistry with anyone in his group or interact much outside of it. He and Matthew flirt with each other a lot but they also bicker constantly so it doesn't read all the genuine necessarily.
 

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I'm going 2 try 2 clear my back log on here this weekend because I'm going 2 be busy starting Tuesday.

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Trying 2 spring clean my phone.

Heechul talking about Shanghai romance.

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It means I love u and I miss u in Mandarin.
Oof.
i've seen this before on tumblr and i still have no clue if it's fake or not lol.
 

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for suju: i'm an elf of quite a few years.

heechul seems straight to me barring a few incidents here or there, he's talked quite extensively about his own personal dating incidents with women and it sounds very natural. he's had a few rumored boyfriends though like his friend gunhee and hangeng.
leeteuk i believe was NOT trying to come out last year but i still think hes bi or bicurious at least.
kyuhyun asexual honestly. no attraction towards men imo, maybe a theoretical attraction towards women but in practicality it feels like theres nothing.
zhoumi and donghae are a little suspicious but i dont feel confident saying anything about them because for zhoumi i havent seen enough content of him and if donghae IS anything he's probably in the closet so it doesnt seem right to talk about it.
something interesting: sungmin and eunhyuk were reportedly each other's first kiss. i've also seen it claimed that they kissed multiple times after that too but i can't find a source for this. i don't think eunhyuk likes men tbh in his earlier years he kinda seemed like a massive flirt with women but but i occasionally wonder about it.
 
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